Mistress Tara's Blog

2010-01-22T15:53:00.002+11:00

Another blackmail slave who did not listen and wanted to test my patient. I am serious, and I will post your picture. Be careful what you wish for!

Now, if you still do not comply, I will add your mobile number.

BE WARNED!

Merry Christmas

2009-12-22T18:24:00.010+11:00

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SLAVE M SAYS YES

2009-05-20T16:10:00.001+10:00

Others say NO - more out of habit than conviction..

But m always says yes.

She moans very softly, on an angels wings.

She slowly looks down,

faces the mirror on the floor or the glass in the

window, listens to the twin promises of

fear and ecstasy, then she looks back at me

with acceptance, no heavy

resignation or fake petulance, she looks back

straight and deep into my soul and she breathes, yes...

I hold her chin in the palm of my hand, I

drink her fresh seductive breath, bring her

close to me, her heartbeat a little quicker, her

heat a little hotter, nipples already

blooming against the palms of my hands, her breasts soft

and elastic like ripe mangos, I

squeeze them as hard as I can so that she

feels my hunger, my forceful need to have her beautiful flesh.

I lick the back of her neck, inhale deep

the promise of sweat in her hair, pull

her nipples a little harder. .

Some times she say yes with her mouth wide open,

my cock stretching her lips,

she simply nods to the strict leather riding crop

that mould her into a beautiful

sacrifice, that will better force

her to offer herself, that

will help her sing new songs she never knew

she could compose, she says

yes with her eyes to my eyes and I taste everyone

of her sighs, every sharp note of

pain, every whimper of joy.

She say yes by the tones of her skin, the sudden

waves of red across the dunes of

her belly, the inside of her thighs as she opens

to receive my latex fingers, as she arches

back to present me with the fresh fruit of her

open arse, she says yes with little

releases of fragrant perfume when the pleasure is so strong that

words are not good enough. She

says yes by carefully kneeling on the floor,

still fragrant like an arum lily

under the sun of January, places her mouth where my heat

needs release, she says yes by turning her

head as I approach her body bent double - spread wide,.

she say yes and yes again in

her slow moans, her tight motions, without thinking

anymore, panting around

my lips and my fingers, buckling against the crop,

sliding cunt around my dick, each

whimper a yes, each muffled

cry an encouragement, each release a testimonial.

I like the way she says yes. The way she trusts me

to play with her, to beat her and fuck her to

places where joy is a rich blue note with a deep

low pitch that travels every moist

nerve ending, she is the one who makes me young again,

I am the riding crop that makes her rise

and sing with pain and pleasure. M is

my music and my instrument.

Written by Master Phil for slave girl M.

BDSM in the "Sydney Morning Herrald"

2008-09-14T16:25:00.002+10:00

Bondage: it's knot so naughty after all

August 25, 2008

An unusual sex survey has found that Australians who enjoy bondage and discipline are not damaged or dangerous, and might even be happier than those who practice "normal" sex.

The research showed two per cent of adult Australians regularly partake in sadomasochism and dominance and submission-type sexual role-play.

And contrary to commonly-held stereotypes, they are not doing so in reaction to sexual abuse or because they are "sexually deficient" in some way, according the study of 20,000 Australians by public health researchers at the University of NSW.

"Our findings support the idea that bondage and discipline and sadomasochism (BDSM) is simply a sexual interest or subculture attractive to a minority," Associate Professor Juliet Richters and her colleagues wrote in the Journal of Sexual Medicine.

The findings showed that it was more common among gay, lesbian and bisexual people, and that participants were more likely to have been more sexually adventurous in other ways.

"However, they were no more likely to have been coerced into sexual activity and were not significantly more likely to be unhappy or anxious," said Prof Richters, author of the book Doing It Down Under.

In fact, men who take part may be happier, with results showing they score significantly lower on a scale of psychological distress than other men.

The researchers did not study why this was, but suspect it might simply be that they're more in harmony with themselves because they're into something unusual and are comfortable with that.

Prof. Richters says the findings go against professional views of BDSM.
"People with these sexual interests have long been seen by medicine and the law as, at best, damaged and in need of therapy and, at worst, dangerous and in need of legal regulation," she said.

There was also an assumption, mostly among the general public, that people involved in BDSM were sexually deficient in some way, "and need particularly strong stimuli such as being beaten or tied up to become aroused".

She said she hoped the results would help change these stereotypes.

BDSM in the "Sydney Morning Herrald"

2008-09-14T16:25:00.001+10:00

BDSM in the "Sydney Morning Herrald"

2008-09-14T16:10:00.002+10:00

Slavery

2008-06-13T18:26:00.002+10:00

slavery is NOT all about suffering .....
slavery is primarily about SERVICE.

slavery is NOT all about humiliation .....
slavery is primarily about HUMILITY.

slavery is NOT all about pain .....
slavery is all about BEING PRESENT.

slavery is NOT all about being used .....
slavery is about BEING OF USE.

slavery is NOT only about control .....
slavery is about LETTING GO.

slavery is NOT about your desires .....
slavery is about GIVING to others.

slavery is NOT about abuse .....
slavery is about ACCEPTANCE.

slavery is NOT about proving anything .....
slavery is about BEING REAL.

slavery is NOT about contempt .....
slavery is about RESPECT.

slavery is NOT about how you look .....
slavery is about how you CARE.

slavery is NOT about denying yourself .....
slavery is about BEING OPEN.

slavery is NOT all about punishment .....
slavery is about DISCIPLINE.

slavery is NOT about being unable to escape .....
slavery is about BEING COMMITTED.

slavery is NOT about submission .....
slavery is about OBEDIENCE.

slavery is NOT about fear .....
slavery is about TRUST.

slavery is NOT about Sex .....
slavery is about SERVING.

Chastity Device

2008-03-28T09:27:00.004+11:00

My 24 Hours of Being Locked Up in a CB3000 Chastity Device.

I woke up early and felt a quite aroused and really felt like playing with myself and having release, but instead decided to get out my chastity device and lock myself up to prevent this.

After a spoke to Mistress Tara, i decided to wear my chastity device to work for the very first time, as i had never been out of the house wearing it before, and felt that i should.

The first experience and feeling that hit me was when i put on my work clothes, trousers and shirt and looked in the mirror. I still looked very professional with only a slight hint of a little increase in size and shape in my genital area.

I drove to work in my car, but was very aware that i was restrained inside the device whilst i sat in my car seat, and that the keys for my device were the furthest away that they had ever been from the lock to my device. I arrived at work and walked into my place of work, i felt quite exposed as i knew that i had the device on and it made me feel a little strange and a little embarrassed.

As soon as i sat down at my desk i was again reminded that i was locked up as my cock slid a little towards the opening of the device and the confine of the cuff ring made it's presence known.

There are quite a few attractive females in my open plan office, where i work and there are a couple in particular that if truth be known, given a chance i would love to sleep with, as i walked past them and met them at the photocopier throughout the day i was quickly reminded by my subconscious that even if i was given a chance with any of them there and then, or if a 'chance encounter' happened, i would not stand a chance to please them sexually with my cock.

I felt quite submissive towards them and did not feel my usual authoritative self towards them, in the way that i would normally feel confident.

Throughout the day, my visits to the toilet's required me to sit everything, instead of standing at the cubicles and again made me feel quite submissive and vulnerable.

I was reminded that i was locked inside the device every time i moved on my seat or got up to move around the office as i could feel the cuff ring held tight around my scrotum, which seemed to keep me at a 'semi' state throughout most of the day.

The feeling of not being able to have an erection at all, however slight during the day was quite frustrating and my mind kept thinking about sexual thoughts during the day, more than i probably would if i was not locked up.

Written by slave john from the UK.

A Warning!!!

2008-03-05T22:11:00.005+11:00

This idiot has not fulfilled his obligations. If he does not follow my orders, he will be exposed more and more.

Offering devotion to an unknown Mistress

2008-02-05T19:10:00.000+11:00

What goes through a slaves mind when he offers to do anything, ANYTHING for a Mistress that he doesn’t know? Is that his well thought out intention based on sound slavery principles and a need to serve so deep that he cannot contemplate a life other than total slavery to Her, or is it a horny little man with a hard cock who is only interested in his own little penis?

As often as not when a slave says they will do anything, it means they think they would do anything, as long as that anything is what will get them the most satisfaction. More often than not, it will not involve money, as money is sacred to such males. Why is it that such males say they will do anything, it is usually when their cocks are hard. Once they have released, suddenly they resort to their lazy and self-centred ways. When the Mistress takes them up on this offer by making a demand upon him, suddenly he is not in the mood; he doesn’t feel like it right now. Such a specimen should not call itself a slave. A male such as this denigrates the concept of true slavery. Slavery is not about the slaves’ convenience, it is about self-fulfilment at the expense of a Mistress who deserves utmost respect, and asks for nothing except absolute obedience from him.

But what of the slave who ignores his own needs, and when his Mistress makes a demand, does his absolute best to please Her? What will this slave do to please his Owner? Will he truly do anything? Will he push what he thought were his limits? Will he acknowledge he has limits? In a Total Power Exchange situation, such a slave might believe that his purpose in life is to please his Mistress until the day he dies. This may in fact be a true sentiment for the slave, but how well has he really thought this out?

A good slave should have no problem when his Mistress sends him to have Her mark tattooed on his body. How will he feel when She tells him to drop his pants and prepare his ass to receive a branding? What if the tattoo is to be on his forehead? What will this male say when he is blindfolded, driven to an address, and told to walk in the door, obey absolutely any orders given to him when he walks in, and to remain there until his Mistress is called to pick him up? he is being prostituted out. It may be to a Woman, it may be to a man. It is irrelevant from his point of view, he has to obey, to put out, and be a damn good whore, or suffer the consequences. How will a male who has never met this Mistress before, but has pledged to do absolutely anything to please Her react to a situation such as this? Will he run? Will he beg to be excused? Will he expect a share of the client’s fees? Or will he be a good slave, walk in the door, be a perfect little whore, put out, whether it is his mouth, his ass or his cock that is required, whether it is a Female, a male, or a group of men. Does he still truly want to do ANYTHING to please the Mistress he has pledged unending devotion to?

If a slave has managed to get this far, and he has done everything She demands of him, perhaps he thinks he is in for a lifetime of thrilling adventures at the feet of a very sexy Mistress, he will fuck who he is told to fuck, swallow what he is ordered to swallow, bend over for anyone he is commanded to bend over for. Now he gets his reward, now he has earned his place in Mistress’s stable, he is a very lucky male indeed.

So how will this slave, this slave who still believes he will do anything for Her, everything She demands, regardless of the pain, the humiliation, the shame, how will he react when he realises that he has still not been truly tested? How will you react, little boy, when I auction you off? Will you become the horny little man who runs away because the fantasy has become too real? Will you suddenly start talking about how slavery is not legal, and this was a game that W/we both benefited from? Will you look into the deepest recesses of your soul and finally admit loud and proud, Yes Mistress, i am a slave, i am Your slave, and i am proud to be sold off by You, and i will acknowledge that my life will belong to whoever You sell me too, and i will serve them to the best of my capacity so the world will see that You are a first class slave trainer!

Well, what do you say now boy? Are you ready for your first assignment? Are you prepared to do ANYTHING for me still?

Forced homosexuality.

2008-02-01T20:44:00.000+11:00

The words that any straight boy dreads to hear... "Suck that cock boy", or "Bend over and take his cock". This boy has heard the words only once. They came as quite a shock. It felt as if time had stopped. his cheeks immediately burned bright red, he felt he could hardly breathe, and he couldn’t speak. his mouth was dry and his heart was pounding, he could feel his Owners hand forcing his head towards the cock, he could hear Her chuckling as She knew how distasteful and humiliating he would find it. The cock came nearer, and he could now feel the heat coming off it, he could smell it, and now his Owners words Open wide, be a good boy. he just wanted to run, as fast as he could, to hide.

Then a funny feeling came across him. As the force of Her hand became more insistent, and he realised how much She was enjoying it, his submissiveness came back very powerfully. he had always said that he would do anything to please Her, and so far he always had. Now he realised how much She wanted to see him sucking cock, and his submission to Her overwhelmed him. He would do it for Her of course. he wanted to, he needed to, and he had no say in the matter anyway. Now that he realised it was the right thing to do, it was no less humiliating or embarrassing. The head of the other boys cock was in his mouth now, and he heard his Owner purring Good boy. It was strange, completely unexpected how proud he felt at that moment, hearing those words Good boy. he will do anything when he hears those words, and he felt the force of his Owners hands relax as he voluntarily moved his mouth down the shaft. Gag on it boy he heard, so he did, he forced the shaft as deep into his mouth as he could. At first it was easy, he could feel the hardness of the other boy, Mistress had worked him into quite a frenzy. his cock was very hard, and boy could feel it forcing its way down his mouth, the boy whose cock was being sucked suddenly thrust his hips, and his cock went deep down this boy’s mouth. Boy gagged, and that brought a loud laugh from Mistress, She clapped Her hands and said My my, you are a good little cock sucker. I believe you are quite enjoying this.

All that boy could think now was how he would be unable to ever look in his Mistress’s eyes again after this. Nor would he be able to look in the eyes of the boy whose cock he was now sucking. As boys head bobbed up and down, Mistress pulled his head sideways by the hair until She could see boy. Look at Me She said. Of course he had too, he had no choice, but it was one of the most difficult things he has ever had to do. It was worse than sucking the cock. he looked in Her eyes. his cheeks were still burning, his heart still pounding, and he had to fight the temptation to lower his eyes. What are you boy? She asked. He replied, with a mouth full of cock A cock sucker Mistress. She stroked boys red burning cheek with Her lovely fingers and replied. Yes you are dear, and don’t you ever forget it. he thought his face was as red as it could possibly get, but now it felt like his face was glowing like a beacon. This pleased Her immensely, and She even smiled at boy before She burst out laughing. Now, quick quick, make him cum, and let him splash it all over your face.

his transition from masculine slave to cock sucker was complete. He pulled back and finished the boy off with his hands, feeling the sheer humiliation of Mistress’s laughter as he came all over boys face. boy rubbed the cum into his cheeks which pleased Mistress a lot, although he had mainly done it to ease the burning sensation in his cheeks, which had become quite dry by this point.
The mixture of sensations was quite astounding. There was the intense humiliation at doing something he really did not want to do, yet there was also a sense of pride in knowing that he had done something he didn’t want to do, that he had sacrificed his own feelings for the greater good of his Owner. Afterwards, he always looked at his Owner differently, always with more respect, always with more submission, always with more devotion. Mistress never brought up the subject of forcing him into a homosexual encounter again, and he suspects the prime motivation was to see whether he really would do anything to please Her, as She knew it was one of the few things he wished to avoid. Perhaps She had felt that he had passed the test. Whenever She was using other boys in front of him from then on, he never had to suck cock again. Maybe because She knew that if She wanted him to then he would, was enough for Her.

Written by : obedient_slave_boi

Thoughts of a sub…..

2008-01-26T16:40:00.000+11:00

What happens in a boys mind?

What does a boy think of when he is serving his Mistress? This is a complex issue for a boy to discuss, as there is what his Mistress would like to hear, and what he really thinks. Of course what he is sometimes really thinking, he would never dare express to his Mistress, as it often not permitted to express some sentiments.

Naturally when a boy is serving or being used by his Mistress, his primary thoughts are on being a good boy, withholding any reactions he knows his Mistress will not like, ensuring that within the scope of what he is allowed to say, he keeps expressing appreciation to Her, and letting Her know how lucky he is to be serving Her, to be allowed to experience the pleasure that taking pleasure from him, or inflicting pain on him, or humiliating him brings Her.

There are of course always unspoken thoughts. Why do these remain unspoken? Well, there can be many reasons. The boy may be actively working on refining his submission, honing his subservience to Her, and as such it is better to leave it unspoken, as a Mistress takes it for granted that a boy will work on such issues and has better things to do that listen to a boy whining about himself. Another reason might be that it is just plain inappropriate, for example, many boys dream that their Mistress will allow them a release, but most well trained boys understand that this is not to be spoken and is often deemed completely irrelevant to the session. Some Mistresses of course crave to hear Her boys beg.

But these thoughts usually disappear when the boy is well trained, and especially when he reaches sub space, where the only thing he can think of is his Mistress’s pleasure, and pleasing his Mistress. At these times a boy is overwhelmed with submission, with devotion, sometimes with love. He wonders how did all this happen, how did he not only discover his true self, but find himself in his true place in life, kneeling, worshipping at his Mistress’s feet. As She orders and he obeys, or as She just takes or gives what She wants while he is bound with no choice, he is incredulous that he has reached the point in his life where he begs permission to kiss Her feet, how he may never again, in his life cum unless She allows it, where he can probably even count the number of orgasms She will allow him in his life, and how he thanks Her for taking this control over him. As he is thinking all this, he thinks of how most men take it for granted that they will release in any sexual encounter, how most men would never kiss a Woman’s feet before begging permission to massage Her, or do Her housework. But rather than thinking What happened to me, he thinks Thank You Mistress, i will spend my life worshipping You in order to thank You for teaching me my place under Your feet. He will not look at other males with envy, but rather wish that they could learn their real place in life too.

The boy is wondering how his Mistress sees him, has he improved as a pet since the last time he was allowed in Her presence? Is there anything he should bring up the next time he is allowed to talk regarding ideas he might have had to make Her life easier, more comfortable, more pleasurable? He wonders about the activities where he might be holding back, activities he suspects his Mistress would enjoy that much more if he were less inhibited. Can he take just that extra little bit more pain, knowing how much it will please Her to know that he is sacrificing in order to please Her more.

Sometimes a boy might even wonder how life might have turned out if he considered himself equal to the Woman he serves. How different would a vanilla life have been with his Mistress? At such times he has to work hard at holding back a smirk, as Mistress might see the smirk, and without knowing what he is thinking, take it as a sign of contempt, and pity the boy whose Mistress suspects him of such a sin! It is laughable, as a boy knows that he could never be his Mistress’s equal, and he would slowly shrivel and fade if he were in a vanilla life.

When being used by his Mistress, as often as not a boy does little thinking. A bound boy is not often required for his intellectual capacities. More often than not, when he is bound and helpless, or obeying orders, he is not so much thinking but feeling. Feeling the incredibly intense pleasure that complete obedience to his Mistress brings. The feel of Her breath, or the sound of Her breathing. he feels the incredible tension that permeates the silence between each of Her footsteps. he wonders whether it is the sound that is made when his arse is flogged, or the pain of the flogger that hurts more. He wonders whether the next sensation he experiences will be painful or pleasurable. He feels gratitude and devotion to his Mistress. And then he starts thinking again. He thinks How can i ever make up to Her, for being allowed to be in Her presence, to compensate Her for the exhilaration, the sense of ecstatic joy that threatens to entirely overwhelm him. Is there some more work he can do around the house? Can he learn a new skill, improve his massage skills? Take a pedicure course? Should he beg permission to be allowed to enrol in a cooking course so he can better prepare Her favourite cuisine?

When a boy is with his Mistress, he thinks, but more importantly, his Mistress helps him to stop thinking and feel more. And his feelings help him grow as a sub, and enrich his capabilities to empathise with his Mistress’s desires, and to actively pre-empt Her needs, to become pro-active in learning to be a better boy for Her.

Written by : obedient_slave_boi

How can bratty subs/slaves be disciplined effectively?

2008-01-19T19:05:00.000+11:00

How can subs/slaves that that are insubordinate just to receive discipline be handled, so they are still disciplined, but don't receive the pleasure they were hoping for?

It is all too common a scenario, a sub or slave playing up because they enjoy the attention of being scolded or at the receiving end of discipline. While some find it fun to have a feisty sub, many find it annoying and disrespectful. At best it shows a lack of consideration towards ones Owner, and at worst it represents a clear case of an attempt to Top from the bottom.

How can this sort of sub/slave be dealt with? Disciplining them places their Owner in the situation of being manipulated into a situation that is not for their own pleasure but for their subs. Every Domme has their own way of dealing with this, so this is more of an expression of ideas. Clearly denial of the subs preferred means of discipline is important. If the sub is to be disciplined then it should not be an enjoyable experience in the slightest, and preferably an experience they will regret for a long time.

Can a sub self administer discipline? Is it a fitting mechanism, to lock them in a room with recording equipment and an alarm clock set to ring every hour, and make them wake every hour on the hour to self administer discipline in front of the camera. The sub can have a painful task such as tiger balm to be applied to various places, or various insertions. Each hourly discipline to be recorded on cam, so that its Mistress may verify it at any point if She desires, and he needn’t be present to gain any satisfaction from Her viewing his pain. Would this be a discipline many brats would enjoy? Hopefully not.

Most good subs/slaves would find the idea of being away from their Mistress to be a terrible punishment, and this can be a very effective means of discipline. Is this always enough? Will it really drive home a lesson especially in a case of severe insubordination? Will the sub be too scared of loss of contact with its Owner to ever repeat its insubordination?

With a male sub is it better to hit him where it really hurts? Even the best trained of sub boys enjoy cumming, no matter how irrelevant it may be to their Mistress. Long term denial of orgasm privileges may be a good punishment for these boys, but because of the time to reach peak frustration it may be a while before they truly learn the lesson they need to learn.

These are just thoughts, perhaps an invitation to comment on what methods others have found best to deal with such subs.

Christmas Carol with a twist

2008-01-18T16:46:00.000+11:00

Twas the night before Christmas, and all through the town
Her pleas could be heard as her panties came down.

"Oh Santa, dear Santa, don't spank me, I pray!
I'll be ever so good, starting right from today!"

But Santa just chuckled, "I've heard that before
From many a bad girl with bottom so sore

As she wriggles and squirms 'neath his hand's hearty sting.
But a promise like that - why, it means not a thing.

What matters, dear One, as you'll very soon see
Is that you should be spanked across Santa's broad knee

Till your sassy bare bottom is burning bright red!"
And with that, the old fellow did just as he'd said,

And proceeded to spank her with all of his might
Till her yelps echoed loud in the cold frosty night,

And each swat, ringing out like a loud pistol shot,
Turned her soft, round bottom increasingly hot.

Then, when she'd been hand-spanked with many a smack,
The jolly old fellow reached into his sack

He produced a fine paddle of well-seasoned wood.
"Now, this is the thing that makes naughty girls good."

He remarked with a grin. "And I think you'll soon find
How effective it feels on a soft, tender behind!"

"Oh please, Santa! No more!" she cried in dismay,
But the paddle cracked down without further delay,

And despite all her protests and wailings and shrieks
It soon deepened the blush on her squirming, rear cheeks.

Poor Dear how she wriggled but all was vain,
For the paddle descended again and again

Till her bouncing bare bottom was sizzling and sore
And as red as the costume that Santa Claus wore.

But at last he relented allowing her to rise,
Hugged her warmly while wiping the tears from her eyes,

And murmuring, "There, it's all over, my dear!"
Rubbing soothing cool cream on her blazing, hot rear.

Then he exclaimed, "Well Miss, your sweet bottom so curved
Has had the sound spanking it so richly deserved.

From now on, I'm sure, I don't need to explain,
If you're good then I shan't have to spank you again.

But if you are naughty - remember, my dear,
That Santa keeps watch for the whole of the year!"

Then smiling, he shouldered his bulging big sack,
And sent her away with a crisp farewell smack.

So she hurried to bed with satisfaction you know,
With a song in her heart and her bottom aglow

And a sense that all manner of things were all right.
But she slept facing down on her tummy that night.

Different sub/slave types

2008-01-17T22:43:00.000+11:00

What are the differences between a sub and a slave? The thought that comes to mind foremost is that a slave has no right to deny an order. This makes a slave in some ways more devoted to its Owners needs, as a sub can negotiate limits with his/her Owner, and so this can tend to create a sub that has their own needs as the central posit in their relationship. A slave must do as told, with the exception that it should never be asked to commit a crime, as that places itself and its Owner in a morally reprehensible position. A slave whose Owner demands he has sex with a minor always has the right to refuse.

Of subs and slaves, there are a few main types to explore. These are:

Servant sub/slave
Pleasure sub/slave
Financial sub/slave
Masochist
Domestic sub slave

A Servant sub/slave must work hard to ensure its Owner has a comfortable and easy life. They have many duties which may include chauffeuring, organization of financial matters if allowed, personal assistant duties such as arranging appointments, paying bills and standing in line at queues so its Owner may sit and relax, perhaps in a coffee shop until the sub calls Her to let Her know She needs attend the counter. Manicure, pedicure and massage are vital skills for a servant.

A pleasure sub/slave devotes their life to their Owners pleasure. This is pleasure in a sensual and sexual sense. A pleasure slave should never be under the illusion that their own pleasure is important or even relevant. A pleasure sub should redefine their vocabulary so that whenever they refer to Orgasm, they are referring to their Mistress writhing in ecstatic bliss. They will be adept at oral worship, able to perform for extended periods without complaint. They should know and anticipate all their Mistress’s preferences and desires, and maintain all necessary supplies to ensure Her needs and desires are met with no inconvenience or interruption to Her. A pleasure slave may or may not be used sexually, but this is always at their Mistress’s discretion.

Financial subs/slaves live to ensure their Mistress may live the lifestyle She wants to live. They will go without in order to ensure their Owner never has to. They will constantly be thinking of ways they may be more frugal, or earn more money in order to tribute their Mistress with more gifts. A financial slave should have a good understanding of their Owners likes and dislikes, favourite brands, favourite stores etc. They never expect a reward from their tributes, as the pleasure She gets should be reward enough. They will never get jealous or dare say anything if Mistress uses any of their gifts when She is taking pleasure from other subs/slaves.

Masochist slaves enjoy taking pain to ensure their Owner can enjoy inflicting pain. Some masochists tend to be quite self centred, and with inexperienced Dommes they can tend to Top from the bottom. A true masochist should take the pain knowing that its Owner gets an intense excitement when delivering pain to them.

Domestic subs/slaves devote their lives to making their Mistress’s life easier around the home. A well trained domestic will feel pain and guilt if it thinks its Owner has to do any work for Herself. As such he will attempt to do all Her work, gaining true pleasure when he sees that She can relax, or play or do whatever She desires without having to dirty Her hands. A domestic will do Her dishes, laundry (hand washing Her lingerie if allowed), vacuuming, cleaning and house maintenance tasks. He will ensure the bed is always freshly made with clean crisp sheets; all house plants are maintained and watered. He will do all of this with no expectation of reward, as being allowed to do it for Her is reward enough.

In reality most subs/slaves will have a combination of these types although often one type will define the sub. A truly dedicated sub will always ask itself why it is not prepared to become a slave, what are the fundamental reasons, and question whether this could actually be a form of selfishness, and refusal to truly submit to his Mistress. A good sub will aspire to be more hard working and submissive every year.