Slavery

slavery is NOT all about suffering .....
slavery is primarily about SERVICE.

slavery is NOT all about humiliation .....
slavery is primarily about HUMILITY.

slavery is NOT all about pain .....
slavery is all about BEING PRESENT.

slavery is NOT all about being used .....
slavery is about BEING OF USE.

slavery is NOT only about control .....
slavery is about LETTING GO.

slavery is NOT about your desires .....
slavery is about GIVING to others.

slavery is NOT about abuse .....
slavery is about ACCEPTANCE.

slavery is NOT about proving anything .....
slavery is about BEING REAL.

slavery is NOT about contempt .....
slavery is about RESPECT.

slavery is NOT about how you look .....
slavery is about how you CARE.

slavery is NOT about denying yourself .....
slavery is about BEING OPEN.

slavery is NOT all about punishment .....
slavery is about DISCIPLINE.

slavery is NOT about being unable to escape .....
slavery is about BEING COMMITTED.

slavery is NOT about submission .....
slavery is about OBEDIENCE.

slavery is NOT about fear .....
slavery is about TRUST.

slavery is NOT about Sex .....
slavery is about SERVING.

Offering devotion to an unknown Mistress

What goes through a slaves mind when he offers to do anything, ANYTHING for a Mistress that he doesn’t know? Is that his well thought out intention based on sound slavery principles and a need to serve so deep that he cannot contemplate a life other than total slavery to Her, or is it a horny little man with a hard cock who is only interested in his own little penis?

As often as not when a slave says they will do anything, it means they think they would do anything, as long as that anything is what will get them the most satisfaction. More often than not, it will not involve money, as money is sacred to such males. Why is it that such males say they will do anything, it is usually when their cocks are hard. Once they have released, suddenly they resort to their lazy and self-centred ways. When the Mistress takes them up on this offer by making a demand upon him, suddenly he is not in the mood; he doesn’t feel like it right now. Such a specimen should not call itself a slave. A male such as this denigrates the concept of true slavery. Slavery is not about the slaves’ convenience, it is about self-fulfilment at the expense of a Mistress who deserves utmost respect, and asks for nothing except absolute obedience from him.

But what of the slave who ignores his own needs, and when his Mistress makes a demand, does his absolute best to please Her? What will this slave do to please his Owner? Will he truly do anything? Will he push what he thought were his limits? Will he acknowledge he has limits? In a Total Power Exchange situation, such a slave might believe that his purpose in life is to please his Mistress until the day he dies. This may in fact be a true sentiment for the slave, but how well has he really thought this out?

A good slave should have no problem when his Mistress sends him to have Her mark tattooed on his body. How will he feel when She tells him to drop his pants and prepare his ass to receive a branding? What if the tattoo is to be on his forehead? What will this male say when he is blindfolded, driven to an address, and told to walk in the door, obey absolutely any orders given to him when he walks in, and to remain there until his Mistress is called to pick him up? he is being prostituted out. It may be to a Woman, it may be to a man. It is irrelevant from his point of view, he has to obey, to put out, and be a damn good whore, or suffer the consequences. How will a male who has never met this Mistress before, but has pledged to do absolutely anything to please Her react to a situation such as this? Will he run? Will he beg to be excused? Will he expect a share of the client’s fees? Or will he be a good slave, walk in the door, be a perfect little whore, put out, whether it is his mouth, his ass or his cock that is required, whether it is a Female, a male, or a group of men. Does he still truly want to do ANYTHING to please the Mistress he has pledged unending devotion to?

If a slave has managed to get this far, and he has done everything She demands of him, perhaps he thinks he is in for a lifetime of thrilling adventures at the feet of a very sexy Mistress, he will fuck who he is told to fuck, swallow what he is ordered to swallow, bend over for anyone he is commanded to bend over for. Now he gets his reward, now he has earned his place in Mistress’s stable, he is a very lucky male indeed.

So how will this slave, this slave who still believes he will do anything for Her, everything She demands, regardless of the pain, the humiliation, the shame, how will he react when he realises that he has still not been truly tested? How will you react, little boy, when I auction you off? Will you become the horny little man who runs away because the fantasy has become too real? Will you suddenly start talking about how slavery is not legal, and this was a game that W/we both benefited from? Will you look into the deepest recesses of your soul and finally admit loud and proud, Yes Mistress, i am a slave, i am Your slave, and i am proud to be sold off by You, and i will acknowledge that my life will belong to whoever You sell me too, and i will serve them to the best of my capacity so the world will see that You are a first class slave trainer!

Well, what do you say now boy? Are you ready for your first assignment? Are you prepared to do ANYTHING for me still?

Different sub/slave types

What are the differences between a sub and a slave? The thought that comes to mind foremost is that a slave has no right to deny an order. This makes a slave in some ways more devoted to its Owners needs, as a sub can negotiate limits with his/her Owner, and so this can tend to create a sub that has their own needs as the central posit in their relationship. A slave must do as told, with the exception that it should never be asked to commit a crime, as that places itself and its Owner in a morally reprehensible position. A slave whose Owner demands he has sex with a minor always has the right to refuse.

Of subs and slaves, there are a few main types to explore. These are:

• Servant sub/slave
• Pleasure sub/slave
• Financial sub/slave
• Masochist
• Domestic sub slave

A Servant sub/slave must work hard to ensure its Owner has a comfortable and easy life. They have many duties which may include chauffeuring, organization of financial matters if allowed, personal assistant duties such as arranging appointments, paying bills and standing in line at queues so its Owner may sit and relax, perhaps in a coffee shop until the sub calls Her to let Her know She needs attend the counter. Manicure, pedicure and massage are vital skills for a servant.

A pleasure sub/slave devotes their life to their Owners pleasure. This is pleasure in a sensual and sexual sense. A pleasure slave should never be under the illusion that their own pleasure is important or even relevant. A pleasure sub should redefine their vocabulary so that whenever they refer to Orgasm, they are referring to their Mistress writhing in ecstatic bliss. They will be adept at oral worship, able to perform for extended periods without complaint. They should know and anticipate all their Mistress’s preferences and desires, and maintain all necessary supplies to ensure Her needs and desires are met with no inconvenience or interruption to Her. A pleasure slave may or may not be used sexually, but this is always at their Mistress’s discretion.

Financial subs/slaves live to ensure their Mistress may live the lifestyle She wants to live. They will go without in order to ensure their Owner never has to. They will constantly be thinking of ways they may be more frugal, or earn more money in order to tribute their Mistress with more gifts. A financial slave should have a good understanding of their Owners likes and dislikes, favourite brands, favourite stores etc. They never expect a reward from their tributes, as the pleasure She gets should be reward enough. They will never get jealous or dare say anything if Mistress uses any of their gifts when She is taking pleasure from other subs/slaves.

Masochist slaves enjoy taking pain to ensure their Owner can enjoy inflicting pain. Some masochists tend to be quite self centred, and with inexperienced Dommes they can tend to Top from the bottom. A true masochist should take the pain knowing that its Owner gets an intense excitement when delivering pain to them.

Domestic subs/slaves devote their lives to making their Mistress’s life easier around the home. A well trained domestic will feel pain and guilt if it thinks its Owner has to do any work for Herself. As such he will attempt to do all Her work, gaining true pleasure when he sees that She can relax, or play or do whatever She desires without having to dirty Her hands. A domestic will do Her dishes, laundry (hand washing Her lingerie if allowed), vacuuming, cleaning and house maintenance tasks. He will ensure the bed is always freshly made with clean crisp sheets; all house plants are maintained and watered. He will do all of this with no expectation of reward, as being allowed to do it for Her is reward enough.

In reality most subs/slaves will have a combination of these types although often one type will define the sub. A truly dedicated sub will always ask itself why it is not prepared to become a slave, what are the fundamental reasons, and question whether this could actually be a form of selfishness, and refusal to truly submit to his Mistress. A good sub will aspire to be more hard working and submissive every year.